Sunday, March 13, 2011
" You might as well say" added the March Hare "that I like what I get is the same thing as I get what I like"
Bea has been most kind and invited me to post some of my experiences related to the topic of real life experiences, and whether these experiences need to be sexual, or whether other things are involved. I helped serve at a tea party today. I got changed and wore my traditional french maid's outfit at a friend's house. She is a sissy girl who knows a lot of people, including groups of dominant women. In my experience at the risk of sounding sexist, Ladies loves tea parties. and Dominant Ladies love tea parties where sissy maid service is provided. So 5 sissy maids piled into a car, and went to the home of the dominant lady who was hosting the party. We prepared savoury and sweet courses, cooked up bunches of tea, and met the guests as they came to the door, taking their coats and curtseying sweetly. Here is another picture of some of the other maids doing the preparations. In all there were 9 Ladies and one gentleman friend. We have done this before, so we set up a gay table, with plenty of condiments, led the Ladies individually to table, and spent the next two hours providing what we hope was a high level of cheerful maid's service. The Ladies were free to tease us, and comment on the quality of our service or to chide us when we failed. One of the sissy girls was too chatty and she was chatting with me! and I was singled out as well as her, and given a little spank with raised skirts which I didn't even deserve! But that is the maid's lot is it not?
The interesting question is whether the Ladies or the maids are excited in the sexual sense during this activity. I can speak for myself certainly that mainly this is enjoyable because it is a role play associated with fantasies that were clearly sexual. But this is real. At that moment we actually are maids, in the presence of Ladies. These Ladies are not embarassed. Only the maids are sometimes embarassed! This is exciting the way flirtation is exciting I think. I do not do this for sexual gratification really. We served at the tea party, we cleaned up afterwards. We left. I know a number of the Domme's from other events, parties, and occasions, but in this case we didn't socialize extensively with the Ladies. This was a party for them to socialize with each other.
I have been at these events where the talk between the women, can be intimate, and you realize as I stand there awaiting them to finish their conversation so that I may ask them if they require more tea; that they certainly aren't thinking of the aproned and petticoated servant that awaits them as a man, or they wouldn't speak that way. That is both humiliating and a fulfillment of a wish, since I increasingly choose an identity that is more femme than male. I think that is a little like Monica 's feelings awaiting her employer's judgement of her work.
It is a grand occasion I think, and everyone enjoys themselves I would say. Everyone gets a chance to dress up and show off their pretty frills, or admire the sissy in their cute uniforms.
Its a tea party