Thursday, July 21, 2011
Can't Resist This!
I read OT's recent comment and JUST had to speak my mind! Don't want to add a comment as I feel that not everyone reads them.
To my mind, he is speaking absolute truth. I acted as an advisor (don't laugh) some years ago on a web page that was devoted to spouses of Tranvestites. The most common complaint from the Significant others and wives?
They had no knowlege going into a relationship - but then, in one way or the other, had learned about their partners desire to dress. It disturbed them - there was no doubt about it - but they were perfectly willing to try and get used to the idea.
BUT? Time and time again, it was as if the chains had been lifted from the transvestites and with this freedom came a desire for more and more acceptance of what they wanted - and always as quickly as possible. I felt it was pure, absolute, greed on their part. I could understand the release of so many years of frustration but, at the same time, felt that little attention was being paid to the feelings of their (supposed) soul mates!
OT is absolutely correct. I'm all for honesty in a marriage or relationship - but for goodness sake? Take it EASY!
BTW OT? You from the U.K? I'm just not used to the term 'Nancy' any more.