Have a few things in mind for today. The first is a question that Carrie - one of my very good friends - asked me some time back. I was all poised to put it on my blog - and my own comment - but that was the week when Chrome went all stupid on me. I think it is a damn good question, so her it is:
Something I have been meaning to ask you for some time – and maybe an item for your blog. Do you think there are women who genuinely would like to have men in female clothing( as distinct to women/wives who tolerate it or is this just a major part of our fantasy. My opinion is that there are probably some who would be curious but as a long term thing I doubt it. Our real fantasy I suppose is the woman who forces, blackmails etc men into female clothing, I seriously doubt there any, at least any genuine ones who do it from their own desire/ sexual or otherwise. I have no doubt that there are genuine dommes who like inflicting pain or humiliation on men but women who genuinely have a desire to practice forced feminisation on males I doubt it. Was wondering if you have any views on the subject? Rhetorical question I know but had to ask anyway
I did some thinking on this and my answer is a positive and definite "maybe". Being deep in the closet when I practiced cross dressing on a regular basis, I had little contact with clubs or any such thing, so my experience is very limited. BUT? For a few years, I frequented Mrs. Silk's Chat room. Had a great time curtseying and kissing ass of dominant females. At the same time, I was pretty damn sure that a lot of the dommes were actually men - but made it a point that I was never to be told. And in reality, it was pretty pathetic I guess. Simply SCADS of submissive males - and a bare handful of dominant 'females' (with a bloody big majority of them actually being males.) I got fed up a few times, and went in as a domme myself. To be honest? I think I was well received - hell, think about it - I KNEW what was wanted. But I did get a feeling - just once - that I was actually being dominated by a woman. Could have been a wonderful actor - but that's just a feeling I got.
In another area? I was a counselor for spouses of transvestites. In those cases, it was women discovering that their husbands desired to dress and be treated as women - AFTER marriage. In a few cases, I don't think that the women actually 'hated' what they'd found out - it was mostly two things that raised their ire. The first was that their boyfriends had kept this important thing a secret from them. The second? If they accepted their husband in a feminine role? The men then got greedier and greedier - wanting more and more. I got the feeling that if the husbands had been a little slower in getting the relationship they wanted the women could get to like the idea. But I never really knew. Still don't. Anybody got any ideas?
I started with some short stories last week - other than serializing longer stories. Didn't get one word that said it was a good or bad idea - but it really IS a lot easier for me - so I'll stay with the short ones until I find out differently. There is also a point to be made for the short stories. As most of you know, I'm now finding a distinct market for the sale of the stories that I gave away free for many years. In collecting them for creation of books, I'm getting organized and finding stories that haven's seen the light of day since I first wrote them for "Bea's TV Channel" my first foray into the Internet back in the early 90's - so even some of my more regular readers may find things they haven't run into before.
Then - after the story? A few of Rosie's 'bits'
”I’ll bet,” I said, “And I suppose this has nothing to do with the fact that we were supposed to go shopping for my gown for the wedding.”